We are gorgeous the way we are :-)

Some stories don't have a clear beginning , middle and end!!
Life is about not knowing,having to change,taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.

Life is so full of unpredictable beauty and strange surprises. Sometimes that beauty is too much for me to handle.
Do you know that feeling ? When something is just too beautiful? When someone says something or writes something or plays something that moves you to the point of tears, maybe even changes you.

Well, I know that feeling. There was a time i was always insecure about how do i look? i used to complaint god why i am not beautiful like those girls ? Why i am not fair ?
I was very angry at my life.!!

We live in a country where it is necessary for a girl to look beautiful and Fair colour is considered beautiful.
I don't understand why people are so obsessed with fair colour, I find nights more beautiful and sexy than day.!!

I sit back and observe every person in my life, whether we talk everyday or not. I know who motivates me . I also know who talks about me & smiles in my face. I know who i can trust & who I need to keep a distance with. Whether I say anything or let you be fake , I know. :-)
It took me many years to realise that looks are not everything.!!
One more thing,
It doesn't make sense to call ourselves ugly,because we don't really see ourselves. we don't watch ourselves sleeping in bed,curled up .We don't see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don't see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There is no mirror in your way when you are laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you.
You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moment where you are truly yourself.

God has given me ability and that is the most beautiful thing . I have a life to live.,I have my own dreams and the ability to accomplish them.!!
It's easy to look at people and make quick judgements about them, their present and their past , but you'd be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile hides. :-)
I would love to tell this to everyone if they are sad or angry at their life.

If someone suggests that you aren't beautiful , you can consider ,
how sad it is that they have such a limited view of beauty. You can consider how unfortunate it is that they have such an exaggerated sense of self-importance that they think you should care about what they think.

Please don't judge people . You don't know what it took someone to get out of bed,look and feel as presentable as possible, and face the day with confidence :-) You truly don't know the daily struggles of others.!!
According to me :
"Beauty is something which no picture can express, beauty is a light in the heart. It's not the presence of someone that gives life a beautiful meaning. It's the way that someone touches your heart that gives life a beautiful meaning."

Free yourself from such superficial things ,these insecurities, they will exist anyhow.!!
You will always find something which is not upto your expectations .
 My Mumma says " Hame kabhi bhi kisi ki us kamzori par nahi hasna chahiye jispe unka control na ho. For eg . If someone cannot speak english properly but is trying, this means he knows another language  either help him or motivate him or appreciate him but please don't laugh at him "

 We are humans and  this in itself is a big thing. Time is really the only capital that any human being has and the only thing he can't afford to lose.Enjoy the present,each moment,as it comes because you will never get another one quite like it.
Speak your mind,even if your voice shakes.
And..
Always remember that in someway or another you're somebody's angel, even if you don't know it.
They love you and think of you, even if you don't hear it everyday .
Trust, that,there is love all around even if you cannot feel it you are not alone.!!
The best thing to hold onto life is each other..!!

Once Upon A Lifetime......

            "Not all words fit to their meanings. Sometimes what is said is not what is meant 
                                                  and what is meant is left unsaid"

Once Upon A Lifetime..There was a girl.
She was born to fly and achieve all heights.
They cut her wings,telling her that the world is a cruel place to live in. She still tried to fly ,Thinking that maybe beauty lies in cruelty.
Years passed by..
She was told, someday someone will come to take her along and her life will change. She wondered why she need anyone else ,She herself is capable .
The answers were: Because She is a girl and Fullstop.
She had these feelings- these weird feelings and she had this burning desire to express them. BUT
She said to herself She can't ...she just can't  because she is a girl and these feelings -They're trapped and they're like stuck in her heart and she just feel so lonely.

She thought and asked herself does she really need somebody? because we all need somebody to talk to, somebody that will listen ,somebody that understands.
She was allowed to choose that "Buddy" and
 She Found herself "Her Diary"

Finally she got a companion she was not afraid to lose .
And she wrote.............
It's just a spark, but it's enough to keep me going ,and when it's dark out,and no one around It keeps glowing. :-)
She was free in her wildness,
She was a wanderess , a drop of free water.
For her... ,A sense of humor , A taste for adventure , Openness , Confidence were really powerfully Sexy.
She belonged to no man and to no city.

Beginnings :-)

Another year is on the verge of coming to an end. 

Really? It's gonna end and will never get back to you . How about Jaate Jaate isko kuch dekar Jaaye? 

We all make "To-Do-List" Right?

This time we are not going to do the same :-)

Let's make Not-To-Do List . 

The list should contain,

1. Stop living in the past ,you have already been there.

The Past is Done and it's Unchangeable "MOVE ON"

2. Don't make yourself sad .Happiness is a choice,your circumstances can affect it but YOU are still the one who decides your Happiness.

It's easy to be happy . Make life simple.

People will stare,make it worth their while. :-p

3.Let go one bad habit of yours in 2015, like for me it's the habit of overthinking .

Sometimes good things need to end for better things to Begin.

"Beginnings" 

I like beginnings because they are so full of Promise. The first page of a book,The first day of a job,The first time you buy yourself flowers,The first date with a New Man :-p The first touch,The first kick of a good liquor,The first Salary .

I like beginnings because I know there's always more to come.

No one has a promised tomorrow.

Sometimes you find exactly what you were looking for before you even realized you were looking for it.

Stay Open . Stay Positive . Things can change overnight.

There are the most fantastic ,beautiful things and people out there . I promise. It's up to you to find them.

Sometimes things are too much and i want you to know that's Okay.

There will be times when you want to break down and cry,times when you want to fall asleep and never ever wake up again.

That doesn't make you weak,it makes you human and that's beautiful too, after all that you've been through you can still feel.

 Never underestimate that because you know what that means ? There's Hope. It means that you will feel love and happiness. It means you will feel pride and joy . It means you are still alive but more than that , It means you are still living.

Stay Strong.

Stay Beautiful.

Never Stop Feeling ,but sometimes just Breathe :-) 

You are the Hero/Heroine of your life. Create your life , Design your life, Live it the way you always wanted to. This is your story and you have the power to say"This is not how my story will end"

At the end of the day ,You're all you have got.!!

Love Thyself..!!

Reading romantic novels , watching love stories and listening romantic tracks have always been my favourite pastime since childhood ! <3
There is one thing which is common in all and that is "Making the first move"
Girls generally do not make the first move and many great love stories never starts.! You must never be fearful about what you are doing when it is right.
 Don't be afraid to make the first move and keep making. You are never going to be 100% ready and it's never going to be just the right time,but that's the point. It means that every moment is also the right moment , if you want it you just have to do it ! Waiting is regretting.
Never settle for anything less than you deserve. One failed relationship has nothing to do with the rest of your life. It wasn't the waste of time , if you learnt something.
Many of my friends live in their past and i feel so sorry for them.
 There's so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn't. There's a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way,and it doesn't need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love.Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own . Go on adventures, Fall asleep in the woods with friends,wander around the city at night,sit in a coffee shop on your own. Sit by the bar with the glass windows and look out. Look at all the girls with too many shopping bags.All the couples too in love to care.Then u'll see it a bit of yourself in everyone and somehow , sitting alone in a coffee shop had never felt so good :-) ,write on bathroom stalls . Dress up for yourself and most importantly Smile a lot :-)
Do all things with love,but don't romanticize life like you can't survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn't any less beautiful :-)
Talking is a tonic for brain.I have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations. The ability to just sit and talk. About Love about life about anything about everything.Bound by no obligations barred for no human limitations. To speak without regret or fear of consequence.To talk for hours and about what's really important in life.I am much more interested in those people who talks passionately about ideas and not about other people.
So first of all try to know yourself and things will be easier in life.Live for the moment and enjoy every bit that passes by . You know You are doing well when you lose the interest of looking back.
Fall in love with your Life. It's Beautiful .
Whatever you are be a good one..!! :-)
Afterall Zindagi Naa Milegi Doobara..!!

Take Life as it Comes....!!

Here Comes Another One... :)
You were put on this earth to achieve your greatest self, to live out your purpose and do it courageously...!! We often forget that we have been blessed with great potentials. In his(God's) court there is no Injustice..... We just need to trust him and Believe Our Own Selves...!!
I have a habit of Observing People...Places....Everything...and i have always found each single person that walks through your life teaches you something.... I have stayed in different places ...among Different People....and i am glad i met them. :)
It's my life and I will create it beautifully....even in the worst times i have been there for me...!! Every Second is a surprise and any moment can be your turning point.
Whatever happened in past has nothing to do with your Future.....Just Do It ...whatever it is....Oh Yes Abhi...!! No time can be Better than Abhi.....If you don't want to do it...Just leave It....!! It's Ok...You Should Not live with regrets......Don't wait ....If it's feels wrong Don't Do It.....You were not born to please...Don't be a People Pleaser.....Love yourself....Know Yourself....Spend Some ME TIME.....Create Your Life. Enjoy every bit of it....pick up the good things and move on....!!
Nobody knows how it feels when you Fail Even after giving honest efforts...only YOU will be there for YOU....!!Be Thankful for everything. Life is what happens to you when you are making other plans.....I am thankful for all those bad times for they made me stronger..... No one knows what tomorrow may bring.....Enjoy each an every phase fully alive.
On Your Death Bed when your Life Flashes... IT SHOULD BE WORTH WATCHING...!!

BEING YOU...!! :)

Hi everyone :)

Finally i do have an account on bloggers.com...and this one is supposed to be my "FIRST BLOG".

Life is all about living.... and one thing is for sure ....it always "GOES ON"

Each and every second is a box of surprise ..anything can happen anytime.....I had never known I would come to Jaipur to pursue CA ....I always wanted to become a Doctor....I was very disappointed  when i could not make  it through PMT ....but then i always had this faith that God's plans for me are better than mine...!! and now i realise " this is what i always wanted to do".....somehow everything happened ...time flies...now its time to say Goodbye Jaipur....Few more months to go.

Its like kal ki baat ho. Now i am a firm believer of Destiny......and i would like to thanks a ton ....thank you so much God for sending me here.... and yes "life me hamesha wahi milta hai jo insaan actually me chahta hai" 

I don't know what is gonna happen next.....but whatever it is .."I AM READY" :)

It's easy....The key is "BEING YOU" by being genuine...don't be judgemental... Everyone's Got Their Struggle That No one Knows...Be Free ...Don't carry anything on your back....what's gone cannot come back....Do Mistakes ...Take Lessons....and Move On...!! Don't give the remote of your life to anyone...It's your Life...Own It..Be grateful....!! We smile for Pictures ..because they are supposed to be with us for long .so we don't want to look them SAD :( Aren't you supposed to stay with yourself for Long???? then WHY NOT SMILE ALL THE TIME??? :) :) :)

Don't just Smile For the Camera. Smile for your own short little LIFE.....!!