Some stories don't have a clear beginning , middle and end!!
Life is about not knowing,having to change,taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
Life is so full of unpredictable beauty and strange surprises. Sometimes that beauty is too much for me to handle.
Do you know that feeling ? When something is just too beautiful? When someone says something or writes something or plays something that moves you to the point of tears, maybe even changes you.
Well, I know that feeling. There was a time i was always insecure about how do i look? i used to complaint god why i am not beautiful like those girls ? Why i am not fair ?
I was very angry at my life.!!
We live in a country where it is necessary for a girl to look beautiful and Fair colour is considered beautiful.
I don't understand why people are so obsessed with fair colour, I find nights more beautiful and sexy than day.!!
I sit back and observe every person in my life, whether we talk everyday or not. I know who motivates me . I also know who talks about me & smiles in my face. I know who i can trust & who I need to keep a distance with. Whether I say anything or let you be fake , I know. :-)
It took me many years to realise that looks are not everything.!!
One more thing,
It doesn't make sense to call ourselves ugly,because we don't really see ourselves. we don't watch ourselves sleeping in bed,curled up .We don't see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don't see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There is no mirror in your way when you are laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you.
You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moment where you are truly yourself.
God has given me ability and that is the most beautiful thing . I have a life to live.,I have my own dreams and the ability to accomplish them.!!
It's easy to look at people and make quick judgements about them, their present and their past , but you'd be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile hides. :-)
I would love to tell this to everyone if they are sad or angry at their life.
If someone suggests that you aren't beautiful , you can consider ,
how sad it is that they have such a limited view of beauty. You can consider how unfortunate it is that they have such an exaggerated sense of self-importance that they think you should care about what they think.
Please don't judge people . You don't know what it took someone to get out of bed,look and feel as presentable as possible, and face the day with confidence :-) You truly don't know the daily struggles of others.!!
According to me :
"Beauty is something which no picture can express, beauty is a light in the heart. It's not the presence of someone that gives life a beautiful meaning. It's the way that someone touches your heart that gives life a beautiful meaning."
Free yourself from such superficial things ,these insecurities, they will exist anyhow.!!
You will always find something which is not upto your expectations .
My Mumma says " Hame kabhi bhi kisi ki us kamzori par nahi hasna chahiye jispe unka control na ho. For eg . If someone cannot speak english properly but is trying, this means he knows another language either help him or motivate him or appreciate him but please don't laugh at him "
We are humans and this in itself is a big thing. Time is really the only capital that any human being has and the only thing he can't afford to lose.Enjoy the present,each moment,as it comes because you will never get another one quite like it.
Speak your mind,even if your voice shakes.
And..
Always remember that in someway or another you're somebody's angel, even if you don't know it.
They love you and think of you, even if you don't hear it everyday .
Trust, that,there is love all around even if you cannot feel it you are not alone.!!
The best thing to hold onto life is each other..!!
Life is about not knowing,having to change,taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
Life is so full of unpredictable beauty and strange surprises. Sometimes that beauty is too much for me to handle.
Do you know that feeling ? When something is just too beautiful? When someone says something or writes something or plays something that moves you to the point of tears, maybe even changes you.
Well, I know that feeling. There was a time i was always insecure about how do i look? i used to complaint god why i am not beautiful like those girls ? Why i am not fair ?
I was very angry at my life.!!
We live in a country where it is necessary for a girl to look beautiful and Fair colour is considered beautiful.
I don't understand why people are so obsessed with fair colour, I find nights more beautiful and sexy than day.!!
I sit back and observe every person in my life, whether we talk everyday or not. I know who motivates me . I also know who talks about me & smiles in my face. I know who i can trust & who I need to keep a distance with. Whether I say anything or let you be fake , I know. :-)
It took me many years to realise that looks are not everything.!!
One more thing,
It doesn't make sense to call ourselves ugly,because we don't really see ourselves. we don't watch ourselves sleeping in bed,curled up .We don't see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don't see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There is no mirror in your way when you are laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you.
You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moment where you are truly yourself.
It's easy to look at people and make quick judgements about them, their present and their past , but you'd be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile hides. :-)
I would love to tell this to everyone if they are sad or angry at their life.
If someone suggests that you aren't beautiful , you can consider ,
how sad it is that they have such a limited view of beauty. You can consider how unfortunate it is that they have such an exaggerated sense of self-importance that they think you should care about what they think.
Please don't judge people . You don't know what it took someone to get out of bed,look and feel as presentable as possible, and face the day with confidence :-) You truly don't know the daily struggles of others.!!
According to me :
"Beauty is something which no picture can express, beauty is a light in the heart. It's not the presence of someone that gives life a beautiful meaning. It's the way that someone touches your heart that gives life a beautiful meaning."
Free yourself from such superficial things ,these insecurities, they will exist anyhow.!!
You will always find something which is not upto your expectations .
My Mumma says " Hame kabhi bhi kisi ki us kamzori par nahi hasna chahiye jispe unka control na ho. For eg . If someone cannot speak english properly but is trying, this means he knows another language either help him or motivate him or appreciate him but please don't laugh at him "
We are humans and this in itself is a big thing. Time is really the only capital that any human being has and the only thing he can't afford to lose.Enjoy the present,each moment,as it comes because you will never get another one quite like it.
Speak your mind,even if your voice shakes.
And..
Always remember that in someway or another you're somebody's angel, even if you don't know it.
They love you and think of you, even if you don't hear it everyday .
Trust, that,there is love all around even if you cannot feel it you are not alone.!!
The best thing to hold onto life is each other..!!
It's the inner beauty of person that matters rather than beautiful outer look.
ReplyDeleteNice blog.....keep it up !!!
Yeah certainly!! :-) thank u!!
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DeleteIf vkg had not happened I would never have found you! You are such a beautiful soul.
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